Monday, July 18, 2011
Would i get spousal support?
My husband and I married in May 2010. Shortly after the wedding my husband began lying to me about drug use. I was so hurt that I took a leave from work to help him, losing 60% of my pay. He did one session with a drug counselor and stopped going. I continued therapy and took antidepressants. His lies continued. He even told me I should move in with my sister so have a cool off period but only to find out he has been doing drugs in the house. I finally had it and left him. I went back to work but not to the same stressful job. Because of the depression, I lost that job. I relocated to California to "move on" but became sick with intersticial cystitis. Finding a job was hard and even though he had me insured, I accrued medical debt. I also was unemployed and living with a friend so I couldn't pay my bills so I'm now have to file bankruptcy but cant afford to. He hasn't filed the divorce claiming he has no money but makes 60k year when I only grossed 23k for the last year. My only contribution to the household was 300 mo for part of the utilities. After I moved, he moved In two friends as roommates so that should have kept him afloat. The problem is he is a compulsive liar. But I do have medical documents and my earnings from last year. He refuses to give me anything and I can't afford a lawyer. On top of the financial aspect I have been an emotional wreck. I loved him and I.don't know why this happened. I like my whole life is upside down.
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